Others realize (Saint Paisios the Athonite)

If you’re sincere and don’t have a high opinion of yourself, you’re simple, you’re humble. All of this brings solace to the soul, but is also obvious to others. Other people know if you really feel for them or if you’re being hypocritical. A reprobate’s better than a Christian hypocrite. So, no smiles of hypocritical love, just natural behaviour. No badness or hypocrisy, but love and sincerity.